From: 8charact@yabbs To: alarm@yabbs Subject: re: encounter Date: Mon Aug 1 00:48:22 1994 Alarm-ed, I am not sure that they really understand what they are saying and what they mean. They are not realizing the impact of their words on the survivors. Usually most people say things at wakes/funerals because they think it is the correct thing to say. Also, they may feel that they don't know what to say and it just sounds good..... 8charact